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Book Announcement by Judith Ruskay Rabinor<\/strong> (USA)<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Can a mother be both loving and selfish? Caring and thoughtless? Deceitful and devoted? These are the questions that fuel Judy Rabinor\u2019s quest to understand her ambivalence toward her mother.<\/p>\n

While leading a seminar exploring the importance of the mother-daughter relationship, Rabinor, an eating disorder expert, is blindsided by a memory of a childhood trauma. Realizing how this buried trauma has resonated through her life, she sets off to heal herself.\u00a0The Girl in the Red Boots<\/em>\u00a0(She Writes Press) weaves together tales from Rabinor\u2019s psychotherapy practice and her life, helping readers understand how painful childhood experiences can linger and leave emotional scars. In the process, Rabinor traces her own journey becoming a wounded healer and ultimately making peace with her mother, and herself.<\/p>\n

Not a traditional self-help book outlining \u201csteps\u201d to reconcile or forgive one\u2019s mother,\u00a0The Girl in the Red Boots<\/em>\u00a0is a poignant memoir filled with hard-won life lessons, including the fact that it\u2019s never too late to let go of hurts and disappointments and develop compassion for yourself\u2015and even for your mother.<\/p>\n

https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Girl-Red-Boots-Making-Peace-Mother\/dp\/1647420407\/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=<\/a><\/p>\n

Judith\u00a0Ruskay\u00a0Rabinor,\u00a0Ph.D.<\/strong> is a clinical psychologist, author and consultant to the Renfrew Center Foundation. In addition to clinical work with individuals, families and groups, she offers consultation groups for therapists, and coaches writers individually and in groups. She is the author of two previous books,\u00a0A Starving Madness: Tales of Hunger, Hope and Healing in Psychotherapy\u00a0<\/em>and\u00a0Befriending Your Ex After Divorce: Making Life Better for You, Your Kids and Yes, Your Ex<\/em>. She practices in Manhattan and remotely.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Judith Ruskay Rabinor
\nNew York, NY
\nEmail Judith Ruskay Rabinor<\/a>
\nwww.Judithruskayrabinorphd.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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