{"id":1539,"date":"2014-06-18T19:30:15","date_gmt":"2014-06-18T19:30:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/iarpp.net\/?post_type=article&#038;p=1539"},"modified":"2014-07-17T15:59:08","modified_gmt":"2014-07-17T15:59:08","slug":"erotic-revelations-clinical-applications-and-perverse-scenarios","status":"publish","type":"article","link":"https:\/\/iarpp.net\/thesite\/article\/erotic-revelations-clinical-applications-and-perverse-scenarios\/","title":{"rendered":"Erotic Revelations: Clinical Applications and Perverse Scenarios"},"content":{"rendered":"<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Andrea Celenza<\/strong> (USA)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/iarpp.net\/thesite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ErtcRvltns.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-0\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1541 alignleft\" title=\"\" alt=\"ErtcRvltns\" src=\"http:\/\/iarpp.net\/thesite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ErtcRvltns.jpg\" width=\"150\" height=\"225\" \/><\/a>This book is about erotic desires and fantasies, how our sexuality expresses our inner being and defines the ways in which we engage in the psychoanalytic situation. I am using erotic life in its broadest sense \u2013 the way we desire and love or desire to be loved on all levels, including within our sexual being. We are drawn to the hidden and mysterious; we are tempted to push boundaries, even in the most permissive contexts. Erotic experience exemplifies this urge. What is the nature of this push, this urge to get beyond the immediate and concrete? What are we looking for, what does it feel like? These are some of the questions that pertain to the present exploration into erotic life in the psychoanalytic and psychotherapeutic situation.<\/p>\n<p>In large part, this book addresses the \u2018desexualization\u2019 of the psychoanalytic field and proposes several reasons for this phenomenon. It is, in part, an attempt to explain and correct this desexualization, along with offering recommendations to practitioners for dealing with erotic material when it arises. It has been said that psychoanalysis is all about sex; except for sex \u2013 that\u2019s about aggression. This book aims to \u2018put sexuality back in psychoanalytic theorizing\u2019 in both early formulations (as in the maternal erotic) and to delineate a place for pure erotic longing, along with the illustration of the variety of forms of homo-erotic and hetero-erotic desires. My focus on the erotic nature of the therapeutic situation is an effort to reclaim sexuality as one of the many nexes that are of central concern to our patients. At the very least, I am asserting that erotic transferences of whatever shape, should make their way into every thorough-going analysis or therapy.<\/p>\n<p>Throughout the book, the framework of felt-experience (embodiment), multiplicity, and contradictory gender theory is employed to propose ways in which binarial constraints (e.g., feminine and masculine) may be transcended. I propose that symptoms, inhibitions, and anxieties often result from the individual\u2019s unconscious over commitment to one pole of the masculine\/feminine binary, rather than a more balanced reckoning with the social and cultural demands associated with each.<\/p>\n<p>The book is written in two parts, with clinical, theoretical, and technical discussions in each chapter. Part I presents the varieties and meanings of erotic transferences and countertransferences that are common in clinical situations. Each chapter focuses on a different manifestation, along with thorny technical dilemmas that confront the psychoanalytic clinician. Case illustrations of erotic material are used as examples of phases in treatment as well as moments of defensive impasse. These include the management of aggression, underlying merger fantasies, the uses of countertransferences (in multiple forms), and the dilemmas surrounding self-disclosure.\u00a0 There are cases of both genders and the likely scenarios that emerge when the analyst is female are emphasized.\u00a0 Process material is examined from both classical and contemporary perspectives in terms of theoretical understanding and technical considerations. Countertransference difficulties, including the handling of erotic countertransferences are discussed.<\/p>\n<p>In Part II, the chapters focus on \u2018perverse scenarios\u2019 with the aim of reconceptualizing and restoring the term perversion into the clinical lexicon. By viewing perversion as a quality of relating rather than a specific action or behavior, the term is both narrowed and reformulated so that it may be (paradoxically) more broadly applied.\u00a0 I define perversion as characterized by the impact of its constriction and constraint, the hidden and unbidden (Stoller, 1986).\u00a0 Fundamental to the construction of perverse modes of relating is a means\/end reversal (Stein, 2008), i.e. the use of constructive means for destructive purposes (either to the self or the other). Finally, I discuss the clinical observation that perverse modes of relating by males are often aimed at a perceived dangerous subjectivity of the other while females tend to perceive a dangerous subjectivity within. These dangers can be understood as organizing, delimiting, and unconsciously choreographing the dual capacities of receptivity and potency. Perverse scenarios can be viewed as unconscious enactments that serve to manage and control some imbalanced reckoning with this binarial construction and the ways in which the polarities have come to define one\u2019s embodied and gendered subjectivity. Finally, I propose a schema of perverse scenarios that categorize 1) the localization of perceived dangers (within oneself or in the other), 2) the context (either dyadically or triadically conceived), and 3) degrees of severity (where a rigidly enacted perverse scenario may come to serve a transitional function as the individual\u2019s capacities for growth expand).<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1623\" style=\"width: 210px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/iarpp.net\/thesite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ACelenzaBookJacket_DSC_8156-Edit.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-1\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1623\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1623 \" alt=\"Andrea Celenza\" src=\"http:\/\/iarpp.net\/thesite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ACelenzaBookJacket_DSC_8156-Edit.jpg\" width=\"200\" height=\"301\" srcset=\"https:\/\/iarpp.net\/thesite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ACelenzaBookJacket_DSC_8156-Edit.jpg 200w, https:\/\/iarpp.net\/thesite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/ACelenzaBookJacket_DSC_8156-Edit-199x300.jpg 199w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1623\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Andrea Celenza<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Table of Contents<\/p>\n<p>Introduction:\u00a0 Transcending Binaries<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Encountering Sexuality\/Being<\/li>\n<li>The Binary is Not Dead. It is not Even Binary.<\/li>\n<li>Becky<\/li>\n<li>Discussion<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Part 1:\u00a0 Erotics Embodied: Varieties and Meanings of Erotic Transferences<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Desexulization in the literature and practice<\/li>\n<li>Intimacy Embodied<\/li>\n<li>Eros Embodied<\/li>\n<li>Erotic Transferences and Countertransferences<\/li>\n<li>Gender Embodied,<\/li>\n<li>Opposite Gendered Selves<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Chapter 1: Maternal Erotic Transferences and Merger Wishes<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The Maternal Erotic<\/li>\n<li>Longing for Sameness and Merger Wishes<\/li>\n<li>Julia<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Chapter 2: Maternal Erotic Transferences: Engaging the Mother Within<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The De-sexualized Maternal Transference<\/li>\n<li>Michael<\/li>\n<li>Unrequited (Analytic) Love<\/li>\n<li>The Temptation of the Maternal\/Containing Transference<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Chapter 3: Erotic Transference and the Role of Aggression<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Michael, continued<\/li>\n<li>The Sexualization of Aggression<\/li>\n<li>Murderous Wishes<\/li>\n<li>Continuing Resolution<\/li>\n<li>Discussion<\/li>\n<li>Aggressive Erotic Moves<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Chapter 4:\u00a0 The Guilty Pleasure of Erotic Countertransference:\u00a0 Searching for Radial True<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Comfort and Sexuality<\/li>\n<li>Contacting Me: The Little Girl Inside<\/li>\n<li>The Development of Erotic Countertransference<\/li>\n<li>Multiplicity, Lost Selves, and Opposite-Gendered Selves<\/li>\n<li>The Opposite Gendered Self: Contacting \u2018Not Me\u2019<\/li>\n<li>Discussion<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Chapter 5: Erotic Countertransference Revelations<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The Undisclaimable Analytic Frame<\/li>\n<li>Maintaining the Frame in the Heat of the Moment<\/li>\n<li>Comfort and Clarity with Erotic Language<\/li>\n<li>Verbal Disclosure of Erotic Countertransference<\/li>\n<li>Necessary Conditions of Erotic Countertransference Disclosure<\/li>\n<li>Final Thoughts<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Part II:\u00a0 Perverse Scenarios Revisited<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Introduction<\/li>\n<li>The Reformulation of Perverse Scenarios<\/li>\n<li>The Perverse Quality of Relating<\/li>\n<li>Means\/End Reversal<\/li>\n<li>Motives of Perverse Scenarios<\/li>\n<li>Localization of Perceived Dangers in the Self or Other<\/li>\n<li>Contexts of Threat<\/li>\n<li>Degrees of Perverse Relating<\/li>\n<li>What is Not Perversion?<\/li>\n<li>Levels of Perverse Modes<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Chapter 6:\u00a0 Female Perverse Scenarios: The Objectified Self<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Embodiment<\/li>\n<li>From Embodied to Objectified Self<\/li>\n<li>The Body as Fetish<\/li>\n<li>Clinical Concerns<\/li>\n<li>The White Swan as Objectified Self<\/li>\n<li>The Fetishized Self or Other<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Chapter 7:\u00a0 Sadomasochistic Relating: What\u2019s Sex Got to Do With It?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Introduction<\/li>\n<li>Clinical Illustration<\/li>\n<li>The Eros in Sadomasochism<\/li>\n<li>Conclusion<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Chapter 8:\u00a0 Fetishes, the Anal Universe and Other Fantasies of\u00a0 One Person Relating<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Introduction<\/li>\n<li>The Man with a Boot Fetish<\/li>\n<li>Behind Her Back<\/li>\n<li>An Anal Universe<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Conclusion<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Positions of Subjectivity:\u00a0 The Ineluctable Construction of the Self<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For more information, go to my website:\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.andreacelenza.com\">www.andreacelenza.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Andrea Celenza, Ph.D.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"menu_order":1,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"issuem_issue":[31],"issuem_issue_categories":[12],"issuem_issue_tags":[],"class_list":["post-1539","article","type-article","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","issuem_issue-bookshelf-special-edition-july-2014","issuem_issue_categories-new-books-by-and-edited-by-iarpp-members"],"aioseo_notices":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.9 - 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