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All About the IARPP Candidates’ Committee

By Alioscia Boschiroli (Italy) and Hilary Offman (Canada), Co-chairs

Alioscia Broschioi  Co-Chair Candidates Committee

Hillary Offman Co-Chair Candidates Committee

Many candidates have heard how wonderful it was to be mentored by Stephen Mitchell and how great a loss our community sustained upon his death. Margaret Black founded the IARPP Candidates’ Committee as a way of honoring and continuing Stephen’s contributions. Led by Margaret, our group consists of candidates from all over the world, who come together to create a place where the focus is specifically on and for candidates and early career psychoanalysts.

Annually the Candidates’ Committee hosts an online web seminar designed for participation only by candidates and early career psychoanalysts. Because it is smaller and just for us, it is hoped that this experience will provide a unique opportunity for everyone who participates to find his or her own voice.  We place limits on length and frequency of posts so that candidates from all over the world can feel they are part of the conversation. We are fortunate to have access to some of the most well-known and respected psychoanalytic writers and practitioners to lead us on this journey. The next web seminar for candidates and early psychoanalysts will take place in January 2015 and will be led by Paul Wachtel!  We invite you to join us. Details and information about registration will be available soon.

Another focus of the Candidates’ Committee is to host the Candidates’ Reception and Candidates’ Panel at the International IARPP Conferences.  Each conference opens with a reception for all candidates and early career psychoanalysts so that we can connect with one another right from the start. Many senior and well-known IARPP members, who are also looking to support and connect with candidates, also attend these receptions. Later during the conference the candidates’ committee hosts a panel with presentations by candidates and early career psychoanalysts along with a senior discussant. These presentations are well-attended by students and more experienced practitioners alike, and they are a great opportunity for those with less experience to submit proposals outside of the general IARPP community.

Please join the Candidates’ Committee at the next IARPP conference being held in beautiful Toronto, Canada in June 2015 (no snow we promise).  We can’t wait to meet you at both our reception and panel.  Feel free to contact us at any time to connect and introduce yourselves.

 

Alioscia Boschiroli (Italy), Co-chair
Hilary Offman (Canada) Co-chair
Margaret Black (USA), IARPP executive liaison
Kim Bernstein (USA)
Maria Jose Mezzera (Chile)
Gadit Orian (Israel)
Sandra Toribio (Spain)
Gerard Webster (Australia)

 

Alioscia Boschiroli Psy.D
Via Virginio 2
10064 Pinerolo (TO)
Italy
alioscia.boschiroli@gmail.com

 

Hilary Offman MD FRCPC
121 Balmoral Avenue
Toronto Ontario
M4V 1J5 Canada
offmanh@rogers.com

 

 

IARPP 2015 Conference

The Relational Pulse:
 Controversies, Caricatures, and Clinical Wisdom

Next IARPP Annual Conference in
Toronto, Canada
June 25-28, 2015

torontodaywww2The co-chairs of the annual IARPP conference are hard at work finalizing the details for our 12th international conference, coming up very soon, next June 25 through 28, 2015.  The conference will take place in beautiful Toronto, Canada, a world-class setting well-suited to our international community.  The conference venue will be the InterContinental Toronto Centre.

Within the next few months you will receive further details about the conference, including information for registering.  The conference organizers, Margaret Black, Jody Davies, Hazel Ipp, and Spyros Orfanos—and their committees, comprised of many dozens of volunteers—look forward to welcoming psychotherapists and psychoanalysts from around the globe, eager to engage, present, and learn about the current state of the relational perspective.

Conference Co-Chairs:
Hazel Ipp, Margaret Black, Jody Davies, Spyros Orfanos

 

Jody Messler Davies

Jody Messler Davies

Margaret Black

Margaret Black

Hazel Ipp

Hazel Ipp

Spyros D. Orfanos

Spyros D. Orfanos

 

 

 

 

 

IARPP Members’ Listserv

 Posting Recommendations

As our organization grows in membership we increasingly value the IARPP Members’ Listserv as an effective way to communicate with our colleagues around the world. The listserv is designed for members to announce book releases, presentations, calls for papers for conferences, and to share anything else of professional interest to our international community, including referral requests.

We would like to highlight a few posting tips and recommendations.
In general:

– The most effective posts are brief and clear, with short paragraphs and care taken to avoid ambiguity. This is particularly relevant when considering that IARPP members are from over 40 countries, and for many English is not their first language.

– As we are an international organization, remember to spell out acronyms and give locations. For example, when writing about a presentation at NIP, use the complete name, National Institute for the Psychotherapies, and include that it is located in New York.

– Include your name and location when posting.

– Due to requirements for non-commercial use of the listserv, please remove all pricing information when announcing conferences, and instead write something such as: “for registration contact: (link) or (email).” 

– Consider anything posted to the listserv to be potentially public.

– Please do not forward posts to non-IARPP members or quote any post without the explicit consent of the writer.

When making referral requests:

– include the location of the referral you are seeking in the subject line of your post

– include your email address within the body of the email and a sentence such as “please contact me off-list at ______”  

– take care to protect patient confidentiality, giving as little information as possible to convey the situation.

Read the complete guidelines HERE. (add link)

If you have any questions about the guidelines or how to use the listserv, or if you wish to report a problem, please contact the IARPP Office at +1.212.669.6123 or email Elisa Zazzera at ezazzera@iarpp.net.

IARPP Fall Colloquium 2014

by Steven Knoblauch (USA) and Alejandro Ávila Espada (Spain)
Co-chairs of the IARPP Colloquium Seris

Steven Knoblauch

Alejandro Ávila Espada

We are pleased to announce the upcoming IARPP colloquium in which we will discuss Donnel Stern’s recent paper, “Relational Freedom and Therapeutic Action” (Journal of the American Psychoanalytic Association, Vol. 61, 2013).  The colloquium will run from Monday, November 10, through Sunday, November 23, 2014.  Moderators will be Alejandro Ávila Espada and Steven Knoblauch.  Our international group of panelists includes Susi Federici-Nebbiosi (Italy), Jack Foehl (USA), Orna Guralnik (USA), Rina Lazar (Israel), Felipe Muller (Argentina), Tessa Phillips (Australia), Paul Renn (Great Britain), and Cleonie White (USA).

Donnel Stern is one of the most prolific contributors to the relational psychoanalytic canon. In his many books and articles Stern articulates a particular vision of therapeutic action, based on ideas of unformulated experience, novelty, courting surprise, and relational curiosity.  In the paper being considered in this colloquium, “Relational Freedom and Therapeutic Action,” Stern offers his most current and specific presentation of this vision.  In particular, he discusses what he means by freedom in the activity of the analyst, illustrating the relationships among constriction, relaxation, and relational freedom.

With an international panel taking the lead we will continue our comparative thinking, as we take up the similarities and differences, opportunities and constraints, of Stern’s vision.  We will compare his ideas to others emerging both from within and from outside the relational tradition.  We anticipate a continuing confluence of voices, some new and some familiar, carrying our explorations and considerations forward as we gather and listen to each other in the virtual electronic space of the IARPP colloquium.

CE Credits:
For psychologists: The International Association for Relational Psychoanalysis & Psychotherapy (IARPP) is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. IARPP maintains responsibility for this program and its content. This program is valid for 3 CE Credits.

For social workers: This program is valid for 3 CE Credits (approval number pending).

For California BBS licensees: Course meets the qualifications for 3 hours of continuing education credit for MFTs, LPCCs, LEPs and/or LCSWs as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences under license number PCE 5321. This program is free of cost to the IARPP membership, and it is targeted to psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, psychoanalysts, marriage and family therapists, academics, as well as other California BBS licensees.

If you have any questions about CE’s please contact Lucia Lezama at via email here

Email Steven Knoblauch
www.stevenknoblauchphd.com

Email Alejandro Avila Espada
www.psicoterapiarelacional.es

 

 

 

Upcoming Webinar: Psicoterapia, Psicoanálisis, y Psicoanálisis Relacional (Psychotherapy, Psychoanalysis, and Relational Psychoanalysis)

by Allison Katz (USA) and André Sassenfeld (Chile), Co-chairs of the Webinar Committee

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The web seminar committee has recently been reorganized, the previous committee having served for several years under the outstanding leadership of Ilene Philipson (USA) and John Skrovan (USA).  As the incoming co-chairs, we are pleased to announce the members of our committee.  In addition to the two of us—André Sassenfeld (Chile, co-chair and liaison to the IARPP Board) and Allison Katz (USA)—our committee includes Christina Emanuel (USA), Amanda Kottler (South Africa), Susanna Federici-Nebbiosi (Italy), Ilene Philipson, Carmine Schettini (Italy), John Skrovan, and Micha Weiss (Israel).  We very much wish to thank the previous co-chairs and webinar committee for their work, paving a nice path for us to follow as new co-chairs.

Our first webinar will take place this fall, from December 1 through 15, 2014.  The announcement is below.  This webinar will be held in Spanish, allowing the full participation of our large number of Spanish speaking IARPP members.  This upcoming webinar is entitled “Psicoterapia, Psicoanálisis y Psicoanálisis Relacional,” and will feature a discussion of the work of Joan Coderch.  It will be moderated by André Sassenfeld and Carlos Rodríguez Sutil (Spain).

And we look forward to announcing other upcoming webinars in the weeks ahead.

Email Allison Katz
Email André Sassenfeld

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Webinar 2014: Psicoterapia, Psicoanálisis y Psicoanálisis Relacional

(click here for English)

Título: Psicoterapia, Psicoanálisis y Psicoanálisis Relacional
Moderadores: André Sassenfeld, Carlos Rodríguez Sutil
Fechas: 1 December 2014 – 15 December 2014
Papel: Este seminario se desarrolla a partir del trabajo de Joan Coderch (2012), Psicoanálisis Relacional de Frecuencia Semanal y Larga Duración (PRSLD). Bases teóricas y clínicas. Clínica e Investigación Relacional, 6 (3), 468-514.

Acerca de este Seminario: Con él nos acercamos a cuestiones esenciales de difícil definición que diferencian la teoría y la práctica del psicoanálisis relacional respecto a los enfoques ortodoxos, freudianos u otros, desde un aspecto concreto esencial, como es la frecuencia semanal de sesiones y cómo para valorar esa frecuencia debe considerarse el modo de participación del terapeuta. El psicoanálisis relacional de frecuencia semanal y larga duración (PRSLD) no requiere una frecuencia mayor de sesiones ni pretende producir la regresión en el paciente, pues en cada encuentro semanal se presentan íntegros los esquemas mentales y estilos básicos del paciente (y del terapeuta). Según Coderch, el PRSLD es eficaz porque no se pretende la regresión ni la neurosis de transferencia, sino modificar el inconsciente de procedimiento, los automatismos, mediante – subrayamos la expresión – un incremento de la mentalización (p. 481). Además, este artículo sugiere que toda descripción e intento de comprensión en psicoanálisis sólo podrán ser válidos si cumplen una función dialéctica, en el más profundo sentido de “dialógico,” abarcando incluso la posibilidad de un diálogo sin palabras.

ESTE SEMINARIO SE LLEVARÁ A CABO EN ESPAÑOL.

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Title: Psychotherapy, Psychoanalysis, and Relational Psychoanalysis
Moderators:  André Sassenfeld, Carlos Rodríguez Sutil
Dates: December 1-15, 2014
Paper: This seminar was developed from Joan Coderch’s 2012 article, “Relational Psychoanalysis, Weekly and Long Term (PRSLD).”  Theoretical and clinical bases. Relational and Clinical Research, Vol. 6 , No. 3, p. 468-514.

About this seminar: This seminar will be based on Joan Coderch‘s (2012) work on relational psychoanalysis in which the author describes meeting with patients for one session per week for long durations of time. We will approach essential, difficult to define topics that differentiate relational psychoanalysis’ theory and practice from orthodox approaches, Freudian or otherwise, focusing on the concrete aspect of session frequency. Coderch takes into consideration the therapist’s modality of participation to evaluate session frequency.

Coderch’s view is that relational psychoanalysis does not necessarily require greater frequency than one session per week since in every weekly encounter the psychic schemes and basic styles of the patient (and the therapist) present themselves in complete form.  According to Coderch, this modality is effective because it does not have as its goal regression and transference neurosis, but instead focuses on modifying the procedural unconscious and automatisms through—and we emphasize the expression—“an increase in mentalization” (p. 481). Furthermore, his paper suggests that any description of or attempt at understanding in psychoanalysis can only be valid if it fulfills a dialectic function, in the deepest sense of “dialogical,” even encompassing the possibility of a wordless dialogue.

THIS SEMINAR WILL BE HELD IN SPANISH.

From the Editors

by Christina Emanuel (USA) and Maria Tammone (Italy)

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Dear IARPP Community,

Welcome to the latest issue of the IARPP eNews.  In this edition we are pleased to feature updates from our chapters around the world.  It is truly a delight to be in touch with our chapter chairs—from New Zealand to Israel to Europe and many places in between—as we gather news about their programs and activities. The local chapters are coordinated by co-chairs Chana Ullman (Israel) and Neil Altman (USA), to whom we express our thanks for their leadership. It’s mind-boggling to consider the scope of our organization around the world, how we work so well together as such a diverse community.

This issue of the eNews also includes updates from the Candidates’ Committee, the recently reorganized Webinar Committee, as well as the Colloquium Committee co-chairs, announcing the upcoming colloquium this November featuring the work of Donnel Stern. We also include a letter from the President of IARPP, Susanna Federici-Nebbiosi, among a few other articles. We are particularly pleased to highlight a contribution from Rina Lazar (Israel) who discusses her experience moderating the recent IARPP psycho-political online discussion talking about Israel and Gaza in psychoanalysis.

This issue of the eNews also marks our first as co-editors, as Sally Rudoy (USA) and Sharon Ziv Beiman (Israel) have completed their tenure, handing the reins over to us.  We would like to introduce ourselves to you.  Maria Tammone is a psychoanalyst and psychiatrist in private practice in Rome, Italy, working in a private practice setting.  She belongs to ISIPSé (The Institute of Self Psychology and Relational Psychoanalysis) in Rome and has participated in several IARPP and IAPSP conferences.  Christina Emanuel is a psychoanalyst and psychotherapist in private practice in Pasadena, California, USA.  She is a member of the Institute of Contemporary Psychoanalysis (ICP) in Los Angeles, and, like Maria, is a frequent participant at IARPP and IAPSP conferences.  We both feel is it a special honor to contribute, on behalf of our communities, to this vital and stimulating part of the IARPP community.  We hope to continue the brilliant work of Sally and Sharon to the best of our ability and look forward to meeting each other in person in Toronto!

We hope you enjoy this edition of the eNews.  Our next deadline for submissions will be January 23, 2015.
 Please read below for instructions to submit pieces for future editions of the Bookshelf and eNews.

Sincerely,

Christina and Maria

 

When submitting articles to the Bookshelf and eNews, please include the following:

1.  The title of your book, article, or presentation
2.  A brief description of the content, if you would like
3.  A link to a publisher if there is one
4.  For presentations, please spell out all acronyms and include the location
5.  Artwork or a photo of the book cover if applicable
6.  A photograph of yourself in jpeg format
7.  Your professional contact information for our readers as you would like it to appear publicly

Please send all submissions to Maria Tammone: irene97@libero.it
 and Christina Emanuel: christinaemanuel@sbcglobal.net

 

 

 

 

Letter from the IARPP President

susiarticleDear IARPP Members,

This summer our organization dealt with a challenging event. As you know, because of the war involving Israel and Gaza many IARPP members sent messages to the listserv, beginning a discussion of this terrible event. It was not easy to decide to create a specific online discussion group to talk about politics within our community.  However, I thought doing so was an important opportunity for our professional community, whose psychoanalytic approach is focused on mutual recognition and on the central role of relationships in human development. Once again I want to thank Rina Lazar for her generosity as moderator of this group, and for dealing with the discussion process so well and for such a long time.  I invite you all to read her report about this important experience in this issue of the eNews.

In October we completed the process of reorganizing the Webinar Committee. It is co-chaired by André Sassenfeld from Santiago (Chile) and Allison Katz from New York (USA). André will be also the Board liaison. Committee members are Christina Emanuel (USA), Amanda Kottler (South Africa), Ilene Philipson (USA), John Skrovan (USA), Carmine Schettini (Italy), and Micha Weiss (Israel). On behalf of IARPP I want to thank them for their service on this committee.  I am sure that this group will be able to develop a creative and strong program, so keep an eye out for upcoming webinar announcements.

The Toronto conference is growing: the call for papers was a great success, so there was a lot of work for the co-chairs, the steering committee, and the local committee. The program is now almost complete and I can anticipate that this conference will be extremely interesting.  Relational psychoanalysis, since its beginning, has been based on a comparative approach among different models.  In this conference we will try to compare from within relational multiplicity in order to expand the meanings of what is relational.

I would like to conclude this brief communication with an invitation to participate in the next colloquium to be held from November 10 to 23.  In it we will discuss Donnel Stern’s article, “Relational Freedom and Therapeutic Action.”  It will offer another important arena for exploring similarities and differences, for sharing experiences, and thus enlarging our clinical practice.

Very warmly,

Susanna Federici-Nebbiosi

 

 

News from IARPP Chapters

The co-chairs of IARPP local chapters committee are Chana Ullman (Israel) and Neil Altman (USA)

Greece
Israel
Mexico
Aotaeroa/New Zealand
Portugal
Spain
United Kingdom

Report from IARPP-Greece

by Alexis Murdoh, Chair

ALEXIS-MORDOHGreetings to everyone from the Greek Chapter of IARPP.  Here in Greece our local chapter has been in a holding pattern since last year. That is for several reasons, the two principal ones being, a) lack of (wo)manpower and, b) lack of funds.  In terms of (wo)man power, four of our founding members and members of the executive committee have either withdrawn completely or have sharply limited their involvement, because of health problems and for other personal reasons. As a result we have not enough people available to do the planning and logistical work involved in developing our chapter and its activities further.

In terms of funding, our country is now in its fifth year of a severe economic crisis. As a result we have all experienced a loss of income that has made it much harder to pursue and cover the cost of professional activities and continuing education. Even though there are many who are interested in learning about the relational perspective, more often than not they cannot afford the cost of educational events. For example, we have been unable to start a second weekly teleconferencing seminar with Stuart and Barbara Pizer as planned because, while we had people interested in participating, they were unable to afford the tuition.

For this year, we will be continuing the weekly teleconferencing seminar with Jody Davies on “Clinical Issues in Relational Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy.” It is a seminar in which we alternate theoretical teaching and relevant readings with case presentations and discussions. This seminar will be entering its third year and has had a very positive reception from participants. We will also focus on recruiting colleagues who will be able to help with the tasks of the executive committee and planning some seminars or workshops as a single event or an event of a short duration, which will be more affordable for our members.

I do hope to see you in Toronto and wish you all well.

Alexis Mordoh, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist
42 Patriarhou Ioakim Street, Athens, 106.75
65A Sarantaporou Street, Kifisia, 145.63
Greece
Email Alexis Mordoh

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Report from IARPP-Israel

by Sharon Ziv Beiman, Chair
Sharon Ziv Beimanלחץ כאן לעברית

 

Our context: I’m writing to share the activities of the Israeli Forum for Relational Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy after the horrifying summer of war between Israel and Gaza.  For us relational psychoanalysts and psychotherapists, coping with the war—with all its existential, moral, political and personal meanings—challenged the interrelations between the psychological and the political aspects of our lives.  It forced us to define, redefine, reconsider, and conceptualize the position from which we act in each psychotherapeutic interaction.  Many of us found ourselves engaged in political discussions or arguments with patients and involved in unavoidable enactments around the perception of the situation, its meanings, and ways to cope with it.  Aspects of sameness and difference within the psychotherapeutic dyad were polarized, with a low tolerance for disagreement and a strong need to find shared understandings of the situation.

We deeply appreciate the space that was opened by the IARPP psycho-political online discussion group, skillfully and sensitively moderated by Dr. Rina LazarWe thank the executive committee, the listserv committee, and Valerie Ghent and Elisa Zazzera for their efforts.  This virtual yet interpersonal space enabled many IARPP members to conceptualize and process their experiences, thoughts, and feelings, which were full of pain, anxiety, rage, and despair.

Following this overwhelming experience of living and working in the context of war and ethnic-political-sociological conflict, the board decided to dedicate the chapter’s annual conference, “Relational Circles,” to the theme of “Psychotherapy in the Israeli context of 2015.”  We hope this conference will create a psycho-political space to process and discuss a wide range of topics related to working as psychoanalysts and psychotherapists in the post-traumatic, conflictual, controversial, complex, and multicultural Israeli context.

General updates: We would like to share with you that a special committee of the chapter’s board is currently working on a local website for the chapter. We are looking forward to launching the website at the beginning of 2015.

At our annual members meeting, which took place on September 30, 2014, we determined that in January of 2015 Offer Maurer will replace Sharon Ziv Beiman as the next Chair of the chapter.  Current board members include:  Sharon Ziv Beiman, Mitchel Becker, Tamar Barnea, Esther Bamberger (until April 2015), Offer Maurer, Adit Nir, Orna Schur, Orna Kislasy (Until January 2016), Irit Kleiner Paz (Until January 2017), Shaily Wardimon, Tami Dror-Schieber, and Dan Friedlander (Until January 2018). Orna Kislasy was nominated as chair of the membership committee.  Irit Kliener Paz and Shaily Wardimon were appointed website administrators.  Adit Nir is secretary and, as such, is responsible for the chapter’s communications.  Irit Kleiner-Paz was nominated as treasurer, and Rina Lazar and Chana Ullman were nominated to the auditing committee.

Chapter activities: Our chapter presented its annual conference, “Relational Circles 2014,” on March 6 and 7.  The vision for this conference was to create a space for mutual learning and to develop and explore relational ideas as they relate to theory and practice.  The participants had the opportunity intimately to investigate, experience, and discuss relational concepts during the 21 workshops and 16 original paper presentations.  Topics included:  trauma, dissociation, gender and sexuality, cultural contexts and the therapeutic arena, ethics and psychoanalytic process, therapeutic stories, self-disclosure as a manifestation of the therapist’s subjectivity, spontaneity and rituals in the psychoanalytic process, supervision as dreaming, therapeutic narratives from relational perspective, the influence of therapeutic processes on the therapist’s personal life, aspects of the couple relationship on individual and couples therapy, the relational body of the therapist, the interrelationship between femininity and masculinity, relationally-oriented supervision groups, implementing playback theatre techniques into relational therapy, the “dance” of a patient’s and therapist’s relational patterns in psychotherapy, a learning and reflecting group on treating parents, and more.  400 participants took part in the conference, with 70 professionals leading workshops and presenting lectures.  The conference was intellectually stimulating and a very meaningful experience for all, one that has significantly strengthened our relational community in Israel.

On May 2014 we, together with Amcha (An Israeli mental health-care organization for Holocaust survivors and their families), hosted Dr. Ghislaine Boulanger.  She and Irit Kleiner-Paz discussed a case presented by Offer Dubretzky, the chief psychologist for Amcha.

Also in May our chapter presented a half-day conference featuring Steve Kuchuk and Neville Symington, chaired by Chana Ullman, to celebrate the publication of the book that Steve edited, Clinical Implications of the Psychoanalyst’s Life Experience: When the Personal Becomes Professional.  This seminar was presented jointly with the Tel Aviv Institute for Contemporary Psychoanalysis.

Together with the Gay-Friendly Psychotherapy Team we also had a seminar in which Steve Kuchuk presented his paper, The Therapeutic Action of Male Sexual Desire in the Treatment of Heterosexual Men.”  During this seminar Dan Friedlander also presented a case, with Dana Amir and Maya Muchamel as discussants. Offer Maurer moderated.

Upcoming events: On October 26, together with Tel Aviv Institute for Contemporary Psychoanalysis, we will present a seminar with Hazel Ipp and Mal Slavin moderated by Aner Govrin and Orna Kislasy entitled, “On not Mistaking the Parts for the Whole: Cultivating a Creative Multiplicity and Tension within Relational Theories.”

We will have a seminar with Jonathan Slavin and Miki Rachmani on November 26, moderated by Adit Nir.  The topic will be “The Struggle for Recognition: the Experience of Agency in Relational Thought.” 

On December 28we will have a presentation by Tamar Barnea, with Mitchel Becker as moderator.  The presentation is entitled, “Moving between Winnicott and the Relationals.

These events will be followed in January of 2015 by a clinical evening with Miriam Berger and Avi Berman, in which they will discuss their book “Victimhood, Vengefulness, and the Culture of Forgiveness” (2010, Edited by Ivan Urlic, Nova Science Publishers). The seminar will be moderated by Orna Schur.

On February 13, 2015, together with the Program for the Studies of Hermeneutics and Culture at Bar-Ilan University, we will host Prof. Jon Mills for a conference on “The dialogue between the Relational Approach and its Critics.”  Aner Govrin will open the conference with an introductory lecture.   Chana Ullman, Boaz Shalgi, Merav Roth, Liran Razinsky, and Shlomit Gadot will discuss the ideas of Aner Govrin and Jon Mills. The conference will be moderated by Offer Maurer.

And, finally, our annual conference will take place on March 12 and 13, 2015:  “Relational Circles: Psychotherapy in the Israeli Context of 2015.”

Email Sharon Ziv Beiman

 

דוח הפורום הישראלי לפסיכואנליזה ופסיכותרפיה התייחסותית – הסניף הישראלי של IARPP

מרץ 2014 – מרץ 2015

רקע: אנו כותבים אליכם כדי לחלוק ולשתף בפעילויות של הפורום הישראלי לפסיכותרפיה ופסיכואנליזה התייחסותית, אחרי הקיץ הנורא של המלחמה בין ישראל לעזה. כמטפלים התייחסותיים, המתמודדים עם מלחמה על משמעויותיה האישיות, הפוליטיות, המוסריות והקיומיות, המצב הציב ומציב אתגר גדול להמשיך לתפקד באופן אחראי במהלכה ואחריה. הוא דורש מאתנו להגדיר ולשקול מחדש באופן משתנה את העמדה שממנה אנו פועלים בתוך המרחב הטיפולי שמתנגשים בו היבטים פסיכולוגים ופוליטיים, תוך שהמציאות חודרת ליומיום ולחדר הטיפולים באופן חריף.  רבים מאתנו מצאו עצמם מנהלים דיונים פוליטיים בתוך שעה טיפולית, ומפתחים שיח עם מטופלים סביב התפיסה של המצב, משמעותו והדרכים להתמודד עמו. נושאים של דמיון ושוני בתוך דיאדה טיפולית הגיעו לקיטובים קיצוניים תוך כמיהה עזה למצוא הבנות משותפות בצד חוויה של צמצום מרחב הסובלנות לחוסר-הסכמה.

הערכתנו העמוקה נתונה למרחב הפסיכו-פוליטי שהתאפשר הודות לדיון האינטרנטי בפורום של IARPP שנוהל במיומנות ורגישות על ידי דר’ רינה לזר. אנו מודים לוועד המנהל של IARPP, לוועדת התקשורת האינטרנטית של האיגוד, לגב’ וולרי גנט ולגב’ אליסה זאזרה, על המאמצים לקיים את המרחב הפסיכו-פוליטי האינטרנטי, שסייע לנו לעבד ולהמשיג את ההתנסויות, הרגשות והמחשבות הכואבות.

בעקבות התנסות קשה זו של לחיות ולעבוד כמטפלים בתוך מציאות של מלחמה וקונפליקט חברתי-פוליטי, החליט וועד הפורום להקדיש את הכנס השנתי “מעגלים התייחסותיים” לנושא: “לטפל בתוך ההקשר הישראלי 2015”. אנו מקווים שהכנס ייצר מרחב פסיכו-פוליטי שיאפשר להמשיך לדון ולעבד היבטים נרחבים של הפעילות הטיפולית בכלל והפסיכואנליטית בפרט בהקשר של המורכבות החברתית, הרב-תרבותית, רוויית הטראומה של החברה בישראל.

עדכונים כלליים:

ברצוננו לעכן כי ועדה מיוחדת עוסקת בימים אלו בסיום הבנייה של אתר אינטרנט עבור הסניף הישראלי של הפורום ההתייחסותי. אנו מצפים לעלייתו לאוויר בתחילת שנת 2015.

בחודש ינואר 2015 עופר מאורר יחליף את שרון זיו ביימן כיו”ר של הסניף הישראלי. בהתאם להחלטות האסיפה השנתית שנערכה ב 30 בספטמבר 2014, חברי הוועד הנוכחי הם: שרון זיו ביימן, מיטשל בקר, תמר ברנע, אסתר במברגר (עד ינואר 2015) עופר מאורר, עדית ניר, אורנה שור, אורנה קיסלסי (עד ינואר 2016) עירית קליינר-פז (עד ינואר 2017) שילי ורדימון, תמי דרור שיבר ודן פרידלנדר (עד ינואר 2018)

אורנה קיסלסי מונתה להיות אחראית על ועדת-חברים, עירית קליינר פז ושילי ורדימון יהיו עורכות מדעיות באתר האינטרנט, עדית ניר מזכירת הוועד ואחראית על התקשורת, עירית קליינר-פז מונתה לגזברית, רינה לזר וחנה אולמן ימשיכו למלא תפקיד של ועדת ביקורת חיצונית.

הפעילויות שנערכו מאז הדיווח האחרון שלנו במרץ 2014:

מעגלים התייחסותיים 2014: הכינוס השנתי נערך ב 6-7 במרץ  2014. החזון שהנחה את הכנס היה לספק מרחב ללמידה משותפת, לפתח ולחקור רעיונות התייחסותיים בהקשרם התיאורטי והקליני. בכנס התקיימו 21 סדנאות ו-16 הרצאות מקוריות שאפשרו למשתתפים לחקור באופן אינטימי ומעמיק נושאים התייחסותיים כמו: טראומה ודיסוציאציה; מגדר ומיניות; הקשרים תרבותיים בזירה הטיפולית; זוגיות בטיפול התייחסותי; נרטיבים טיפוליים; חשיפה עצמית כביטוי לסובייקטיביות המטפל; ספונטניות וריטואל; הדרכה כחלימה; השפעת הטיפול על חייו האישיים של המטפל; טיפול זוגי מעמדה התייחסותית; נוכחות הגוף בטיפול התייחסותי; נשיות וגבריות בשיח טיפולי התייחסותי; קבוצות הדרכה באוריינטציה התייחסותית; שימוש בתאטרון פלייבק בטיפול התייחסותי; הריקוד של דפוסים התייחסותיים בין מטפל-מטופלת; הדרכת הורים מתוך חשיבה התייחסותית, ועוד. בכנס השתתפו 400 אנשי מקצוע ו-70 מביניהם הנחו סדנות והציגו הרצאות. הכנס הסתיים בתחושה משותפת של התרגשות וסיפוק רב, ותרם באופן משמעותי לחיזוק הקהילה הטיפולית ההתייחסותית.

 

בחודש מאי 2014 נערך ערב בשיתוף עם ארגון “עמך” לטיפול בניצולי שואה ומשפחותיהם ועם דר’ ז’סלין בולנז’ר שערכה דיון, יחד עם עירית קליינר-פז, במקרה של טיפול בדור שני לשואה, שהוצג על ידי עופר דוברצקי, הפסיכולוג-המנהל של ארגון עמך, אף הוא דור שני.

במאי 2014 התקיים גם יום עיון קצר, בשיתוף עם מכון תל-אביב לפסיכואנליזה בת זמננו, נערך בהשתתפות סטיבן קוצ’וק ונוויל סימינגטון ובהנחיית חנה אולמן כנס לרגל יציאתו לאור של ספרו של סטיב:

 Clinical Implications of the Psychoanalyst’s Life Experience: When the Personal Becomes Professional. 

בנוסף לכך, קיימנו במאי 2014 ערב עיון בשיתוף עם צוות מטפלים גיי-פרנדלי, –  במהלכו הציג סטיב קוצ’וק את מאמרו “השפעת התשוקה ביחסים טיפוליים בין מטפל גבר למטופל הטרוסקסואל” ודן פרידנלנדר הציג מקרה רלוונטי. דנה אמיר ומאיה מוכמל התדיינו עם המאמר והמקרה בהנחייתו של עופר מאורר.

האירועים המתוכננים למחצית השנה הקרובה:

26 באוקטובר 2014: בשיתוף עם מכון תל אביב לפסיכואנליזה בת זמננו, ייערך סמינר בנושא: ריבוי ומתח בין תיאוריות התייחסותיות“, הייזל היפ ומל סלבין יציגו ואורנה קיסלסי וענר גוברין ינחו.

26.11.14:  ערב עיון – המאבק להכרה: תחושת ה agency בחשיבה ההתייחסותית – ערב קליני עם ג’ונתן סלאבין ומיקי רחמני בהנחיית עדית ניר. 

28.12.14: ערב עיון – תנועה בין הגישה ההתייחסותית לבין ויניקוט – הרצאתה של תמר ברנע בהנחיית מיטשל בקר. 

ינואר 2015: מתוכנן ערב קליני עם מרים ברגר ואבי ברמן לכבוד יציאת התרגום של ספרם:

Victimhood, Vengefulness & the Culture of Forgiveness” (2010, Edited by Ivan Urlic, Nova Science Publishers).

אורנה שור תנחה את הערב.

13 בפברואר 2015: בשיתוף עם התכנית לפסיכואנליזה ופרשנות באוניברסיטת בר אילן, נארח את פרופסור ג’ון מילס ליום עיון בנושא “הגישה ההתייחסותית אל מול מבקריה”. היום יפתח בהרצאת מבוא של ענר גוברין, אחריה יציג פרופ’ מילס את הביקורת שלו לגבי הגישה ההתייחסותית וימחיש אותה באמצעות ניתוח של מספר מאמרים התייחסותיים קנוניים. בהמשך ידונו חנה אולמן, בעז שלגי, מירב רוט, לירן רזינסקי, ושלומית גדות בהרצאות.  ינחה את הכנס עופר מאורר.

ב- 12-13 במרץ 2015 – יתקיים כנס “מעגלים התייחסותיים – לטפל בישראל 2015”.

שלכם בברכה,

ועד הפורום,

אסתר במברגר, תמר ברנע, מיטשל בקר, תמי דרור שיבר, שיילי ורדימון, שרון זיו-ביימן (יו”ר יוצא) עופר מאורר (יו”ר נבחר) עדית ניר, דן פרידלנדר, אורנה קיסלסי, עירית קליינר-פז, אורנה שור

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IARPP Mexican Chapter 2014 – 2015 Activities

by Alejandra Plaza

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As we are in the process of forming our group, we have organized a number of activities to strengthen it.  We are currently working in a more organized way. We recently had the pleasant experience of two videoconferences with Dr. Joan Coderch, a relational psychoanalyst from Barcelona, who served as President of the Spanish Psychoanalytic Society and Emeritus Professor of the Ramón Llull University. He has published a number of articles and books in his area of expertise.

The videoconferences included “The Patient-Therapist Interaction as the Foundation of Psychic Change”; “Three Objects of Debate: Enactment, Self-Disclosure, and the Goals of Psychoanalysis”; and “The Rules of Classical Psychoanalysis.”  Dr. Coderch discussed the aforementioned topics from the perspective of complexity theory. He reviewed the history of psychoanalysis, from Freud to the relational school, highlighting the epistemological contexts of both frameworks, thus giving us a wide and complete overview of the topics.

He also talked about his article entitled “The Therapeutic Experience in Psychoanalysis from a Nonlinearity/Complexity Perspective,” proposing that the experience of the baby with its mother over the first year and a half of life constructs the basis for the baby’s subjectivity.  He showed the importance of the therapist establishing a link with the patient, emphasizing an attitude of interaction and dialogue between the two.  It is this relationship that becomes the fundamental element of change for the patient.

In addition, we have a study group that meets once a month to discuss various topics in relational psychoanalysis.  This probably represents one of the most relevant activities we have, due to its educational nature and the continued increase in the number of participants.

Our group has also been putting together a web page that is nearly finished.Among our future activities we are planning a film discussionevent before the end of this year.  In 2015 we are organizing more videoconferences, featuring Dr. Alejandro Ávila and others. With these activities we are expecting to spread the general ideas of relational psychoanalytic thinking in Mexico.

Alejandra Plaza, PhD
Patricio Sanz 529- 802 Col del Valle Benito
Juárez 03100 México D.F.
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Actividades del Capítulo Mexicano de la IARPP 2014 – 2015

Debido a que estamos en el proceso de conformar nuestro grupo, hemos organizado actividades para fortalecerlo. Ahora estamos  trabajando de una forma más integrada.

Tuvimos la agradable  experiencia de tener dos videoconferencias con el Dr. Coderch, Psicoanalista relacional de Barcelona, que fue presidente de la Sociedad Española de Psicoanálisis y Profesor emérito de la Universidad Ramón Llull, quien además ha publicado artículos y libros relacionado con este tópico.

Las videoconferencias versaron sobre los siguientes temas:  “La interacción paciente terapeuta como fundamento para el cambio analítico,” “Tres temas a debate: enactment, autorevelación, y las metas del Psicoanálisis,” y “Las reglas clásicas del Psicoanálisis”.

El Dr. Coderch discutió con la audiencia, los temas antes mencionados desde la perspectiva de las ciencias de la complejidad. Revisó la Historia del Psicoanálisis, desde Freud hasta la Escuela Relacional, destacando los contextos epistemológicos de ambos marcos de referencia y de esta forma nos brindó una visión amplia y completa de estos puntos.

También habló sobre su artículo “Las  experiencias terapéuticas en Psicoanálisis desde la no linealidad/complejidad,” proponiendo que las experiencias del bebé con su madre en el primer año y medio de vida, construyen las bases de la subjetividad del bebé. De esta forma el terapeuta establece un vínculo con el paciente con  una actitud que promueve el diálogo para que se dé la interacción entre ambos. Esta relación es el factor fundamental del cambio.

Organizamos un grupo de estudio que se reúne una vez al mes a discutir lecturas sobre Psicoanálisis Relacional. Esta actividad probablemente es una de las más relevantes, debido a su naturaleza de educación continua y a que se ha incrementado el número de participantes.

Estamos construyendo una página Web que está a punto de que esté funcionando. Estamos planeando realizar un cine debate antes de que termine el año. Para el 2015 vamos a tener otras videoconferencias, para las que tenemos planeado invitar al Dr. Alejandro Ávila, entre otras personas. Con estas actividades esperamos difundir las ideas generales del Psicoanálisis Relacional.

Alejandra Plaza, PhD
Patricio Sanz 529- 802 Col del Valle Benito
Juárez 03100 México D.F.
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Some News From IARPP Aotearoa/New Zealand

by Andrew Duncan, Chair

duncanphoto1014wwwOur chapter is in good heart though mostly only able to serve the northern part of New Zealand, especially Auckland.

We had a one day seminar in Auckland at the end of August and felt we achieved a coup with it fully booked a month ahead.  The numbers were intentionally kept small (50) to foster a dialogic connection.  We framed the seminar as “Being Relational in Aotearoa/New Zealand,” focusing on our local take on relational issues.  We were delighted to have three visitors from Australia who work with Aborigine there and were interested in how the relationship between Maori (the indigenous people of Aotearoa/New Zealand) and Pakeha (non-Maori New Zealanders) works here.  We were also glad to have attendance by others of minority cultures.  There was broad agreement that spirituality and biculturalism (the relationship between Maori and other New Zealanders), are key clinical issues, as are intergenerational issues and gender, among other things. We also continued to explore our understanding of relational concepts such as self states and multiplicity. The structure we used was to have several short presentations followed by a 75 minute facilitated conversation time, occurring both during the morning and afternoon.  This was much appreciated by participants.  The day was a considerable success.

We combined our annual general meeting with the seminar day in the hope of achieving a broader participation in the chapter committee from other parts of Aotearoa.  But in truth the seminar was enough for most participants for one day.  More national participation remains a work in progress.

At the annual general meeting of the chapter we had two departures from the chapter committee, Gavin Stansfield and Margot Solomon, both of whom have contributed enormously to the chapter.   Gavin has served as Secretary and Margot has taken on  various roles.  We elected one new member, Minh Truong-George.  At the chapter committee meeting a few weeks later we elected a new secretary so that the committee is now:

Andrew Duncan, Chair
Minh Truong-George, Secretary
Claire Virtue, Treasurer
Jean Burnton, Committee Member
Diane Piesse, Committee Member
Jeremy Younger, Committee Member

Andrew Duncan, PhD
Registered Clinical Psychologist  and Psychotherapy Specialist
7/33 Seaside Ave
Waterview, AK 1026, New Zealand
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Report from IARPP-Portugal

by Miguel Moita, Chair

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Following our 2013 Conference on “Violence and Evil,” we are pleased to announce our 2014 Conference, organized by IARPP-Portugal, together with APPSI (the Portuguese Association for Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy), and the Center for Comparative and Classical Studies of the Faculty of Letters, University of Lisbon. This upcoming conference deals with a topic that is crucial to the understanding of the human condition: GUILT.

The aim of this event is to contribute to the understanding of the role guilt plays—and the forces it exerts—in our personal lives, in the lives of institutions, and in the construction of historical and social narratives. In this multidisciplinary conference we will bring together key ideas from a variety of disciplines together with psychoanalysis, including philosophy, literature, theology, and law.

It is an honor to once more host a highly qualified panel, including Frank Summers (USA; Training Analyst; Member of the American Psychoanalytic Association, the International Psychoanalytical Association, and IARPP; President of the Psychoanalysis Division of the American Psychological Association), Ariel Liberman (Spain; Training Analyst; member of the Madrid Psychoanalytic Association, the International Psychoanalytical Association, and IARPP; and teacher at “Ágora Relacional”), Frederico Pereira (Portugal; Training Analyst; former President of the Portuguese Psychoanalytical Society; President of the Board of IARPP-Portugal and APPSI; and former Professor at ISPA), Manuel Matos (Psychoanalyst; Associate Professor w/ Aggregation at the Faculty of Psychology, University of Lisbon; Vice-President of the Board of IARPP-Portugal and APPSI), António Hespanha (Emeritus Professor, Faculty of Law, New University of Lisbon), Armindo Vaz (Associate Professor of Classical Culture, Faculty of Letters, University of Lisbon), José Pedro Serra (Full Professor of Classical Culture, Faculty of Letters, University of Lisbon) and André Barata (Assistant Professor of Philosophy, Beira Interior University).

The conference program also features three panels, where several papers will be presented, the themes of which are “The Absence of Guilt,” “Guilt and Literature,” and “New Culpabilities, New Experiences of Guilt.”  There will be three pre-conference clinical workshops as well as a workshop with Frank Summers, “Psychoanalysis as a Radical Subjectivism” (participation by invitation).

For registration and more information on the program and speakers visit:
http://iarpp.pt/appsi/arquivo/3166
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NOTÍCIAS DE PORTUGAL – COLÓQUIO “A CULPA”

Depois do Colóquio sobre a Violência e o Mal realizado em Novembro de 2013, a IARPP-Portugal e a APPSI, desta vez em parceria com os Centro de Estudos Clássicos e Comparatistas da Faculdade de Letras da Universidade de Lisboa, trazem à discussão mais um tema fundamental à compreensão da condição humana: A CULPA.

Colocando novamente em diálogo áreas nucleares do pensamento humano como a Psicanálise, a Filosofia, a História, a Literatura, a Teologia e o Direito, pretende-se com este encontro contribuir para a compreensão do lugar que a Culpa detém e as forças que move na vida pessoal de cada um de nós, na vida das Instituições e na construção de narrativas históricas e sociais.

É uma honra poder contar novamente com um painel de grande qualidade onde estarão presentes, como conferencistas, Frank Summers (USA, psicanalista didacta, membro da Associação Americana de Psicanálise (IPA), da IARPP, e Presidente da Divisão de Psicanálise da American Psychological Association), Ariel Liberman (Espanha, psicanalista didacta, membro da Associação Psicanalítica de Madrid (IPA) e da IARPP, Professor em Agora Relacional), Frederico Pereira (psicanalista didacta, ex-Presidente da SPP, Presidente da IARPP-Portugal e da APPSI, ex-Professor Catedrático (ISPA)), Manuel Matos (psicanalista titular, Professor Associado com Agregação na Faculdade de Psicologia da Universidade de Lisboa, Vice-Presidente da IARPP-Portugal e da APPSI), António Hespanha (Professor Catedrático jubilado, Faculdade de Direito da Universidade Nova de Lisboa), Armindo Vaz (Professor Associado de Teologia na Universidade Católica de Lisboa), José Pedro Serra (Professor Catedrático de Cultura Clássica na Faculdade de Letras da Universidade de Lisboa), André Barata (Professor Auxiliar de Filosofia na Universidade da Beira Interior).

O programa do Colóquio conta também com três painéis de comunicações cujos temas são “A Ausência de Culpa”, “Culpa e Literatura” e “Novas Culpabilidades. Novas Experiências da Culpa” bem como a realização de um pré-colóquio com três workshops clínicos. Haverá ainda um workshop com Frank Summers, dedicado ao tema “Psychoanalysis as a Radical Subjectivism” (participação por convite).

Para inscrições e mais informações sobre o programa e os oradores visite:
http://iarpp.pt/appsi/arquivo/3166

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News from IARPP-Spain chapter (2014)

by Alejandro Ávila Espada, Chair

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The IARPP-Spain chapter continues to promote relational thinking in Spain and throughout the Spanish speaking community worldwide. We recently held the 1st Iberic Conference on Relational Psychoanalysis, which was also our fifth annual meeting, co-organized by IARPP-Spain and IARPP-Portugal.  It took place in Cáceres, Spain, on May 9 and 10, 2014.  The theme of this conference was “Transformational Spaces,” and included special guest Michael Eigen as well as many other presenters and 180 participants.  Our sixth annual meeting will be held in October of 2015 in Valencia.  The focus of that meeting will be psychotherapy, evolution, and social context.  We plan to feature a number of IARPP speakers as special guests.

Concerning our series of books in Spanish on relational thinking, we have recently published the 12th volume in the series, Relational Psychoanalytic Psychopathology, by Carlos Rodríguez Sutil.  This year we have also published a book on Michael Balint’s work, The Basic Fault and The Therapeutic Relationship, by Neri Daurella; Advances in Relational Psychoanalysis, a collection of outstanding papers from Spanish speaking contributors to relational psychoanalysis edited by Joan Coderch; and a translation of Michael Eigen´s Madness, Faith, and Transformation.  In early 2015 a Spanish language translation of Stephen Mitchell’s Influence and Autonomy in Psychoanalysis will be also published.  A more extended report on our activities can be found on our chapter’s website:  http://www.psicoterapiarelacional.com/IARPPEspaña/tabid/66/Default.aspx

Alejandro Ávila Espada

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Noticias de la Sección Española de IARPP (2014)

La Sección Española de IARPP continua promoviendo la difusión del pensamiento relacional en España y en todas las comunidades de habla castellana en todo el mundo.  Hemos realizado recientemente la 1ª Conferencia Ibérica de Psicoanálisis Relacional, (que ha sido también nuestro  5º encuentro anual) co-organizado por IARPP-España e IARPP-Portugal, en Cáceres, España, 9 y 10 de Mayo de 2014, sobre el tema “Espacios de Transformación” con Michael Eigen como invitado especial y 180 participantes y  contribuidores. La 6ª reunión anual se celebrará en Octubre de 2015 en Valencia y se centrará en el tema de “Psicoterapia, evolución y contextos social, con destacados ponentes de IARPP.

Respecto de nuestra Serie de Libros en Castellano de Pensamiento Relacional acabamos de publicar el volumen 12 titulado Psicopatología Psicoanalítica Relacional (de Carlos Rodríguez Sutil), y durante 2014 hemos publicado un libro sobre la obra de M. Balint (N. Daurella: Falla básica y Relación Terapéutica), y una compilación de trabajos destacados de contribuidores españoles en el ámbito relacional (J. Coderch, ed.: Avances en Psicoanálisis Relacional), la traducción de la obra de M. Eigen Locura, Fe y Transformación (Conferencias de Seúl). Durante el primer trimestre de 2015 aparecerá la traducción castellana de la obra de  S.A. Mitchell Influencia y Autonomía en Psicoanálisis. Un informe más amplio de nuestras actividades puede consultarse en la web: http://www.psicoterapiarelacional.com/IARPPEspaña/tabid/66/Default.aspx

Alejandro Ávila Espada

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Report from IARPP-UK

by Aaron Balick, Chair

ABalikIMG_3460IARPP-UK and The Relational School (TRS) have had big changes this year. Two of our founding members, Chair Susie Orbach and Executive Officer Jane Haberlin, both stepped down at our 2013 annual general meeting. We were very sad to lose them as they held a lot of history for relationality here in the UK, and both were crucial to the founding and continuing success of both TRS and the local IARPP UK chapter.  We are all very grateful for their hard work and will miss their presence on the board. Former Vice Chair Aaron Balick has now stepped up as Chair, with Marsha Nodelman as the new Vice Chair. In a historic anomaly, IARPP-UK and TRS operate as separate organizations with different but overlapping memberships, though run by an identical executive board!  We are keen to sort this all out and are putting our heads to it.  In the meantime TRS, as the original relational grouping here in the UK, continues to organize events.

Following our annual general meeting we had a members’ day in which we canvassed our membership about what direction TRS/IARPP-UK should take.  There was a keen sense to do more, with the executive board considering a variety of initiatives such as local reading and supervision groups, book groups, film groups, larger events, and better partnerships with related organizations here in the UK and in Europe. Two ways to do this include improving our online discussion list and renewing our website. Already our new discussion list is live, and we are looking to launch our new, more functional website in October. We are hoping the new website, where a password protected members’ section will contain a list of our members by location, will further enable our membership outside of London to create more local events; we very much hope to support more relational events in the regions outside the capital.

This year we produced several events throwing a critical eye on the relational perspective, including a half-day workshop entitled “Meeting What Can’t Be Met.” This was followed in September by another program, “Relationality: Unfulfillable Promise?” Combining some theory and, crucially, short presentations of clinical work by members, these programs have enabled us to work through the underlying implicit nature of relationality, with discussions that have been quite fruitful and exciting. Following our annual general meeting in December we are planning a joint event with the International Association of Relational Transactional Analysis (IARTA) and continuing professional development provider Psychotherapy Excellence.  We will offer a series of webcasts with international relational thinkers exploring the “Praises and Pitfalls of Relational Psychotherapy.”  Seven hours of webcasts featuring relational speakers (Carmen Joanna Ablack, Aaron Balick, Jessica Benjamin, Maria Gilbert, Helena Hargaden, Susie Orbach, Philip Ringstrom, Michael Soth, and Andrew Samuels) will be available to subscribers to watch, after which we will provide a live event to work through the issues the speakers bring up. We are very much looking forward to this event.

By developing our listserv and website we are hoping to offer many different access routes to the ongoing discussion about relationality.  By increasing our connections we also wish to empower members to pursue their own interests in the development of relational thinking here in the UK.

Aaron Balick
Mindswork
55 St. John Street
London EC1M 3AN
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www.mindswork.co.uk

 

Psycho-Political IARPP Online Discussion Or “Why War?”

by Rina Lazar (Israel)

lazarphoto1014wwwAs an Israeli and a member of IARPP I found myself during the last war feeling so pained and confused and alone among my beloved friends, colleagues, and family, that I took on the mission—and I really do mean mission—that I was asked to do, to moderate a special online discussion talking about Israel and Gaza in psychoanalysis.  The launching of this listserv discussion was a prompt and specific response from IARPP to a need that arose after Jeremy Safran posted Eyal Rozmarin’s paper, “Talking about Gaza in Psychoanalysis,” on our listserv.  I added the name of Israel to Eyal’s title since Israel is always there, deep inside.

This online discussion was a new experience for all of us, organizers and participants alike, and a risky one. Talking about politics is not the best way to be on friendly terms with virtual and real companions, especially in times of war.  It is hard to articulate one’s thoughts in a way that can be heard by others, and to really listen to other voices.

We launched this online discussion on the 15th of August without any predetermined structure or time limit.  Very soon into it there were around 210 participants in this group.  Most were silent participants, though this silence was a very active state of mind.  During our discussion we talked about ideas of homeland, identities, loyalty and attachments, perpetrators and victims, freedom fighters and fundamentalism, right and wrong, and fears and threats.  Other ideas our group took up included history and time, the “present moment of the past,” trauma, “chosen trauma,” “painful privilege,” nationality, the Holocaust, and the Nakba. Our group was comprised of professionals and individuals with very relevant personal histories, including Jews, Christians, and one Palestinian.

We grappled with understanding our involvement in this bloody place.  Why especially is Israel and Gaza such a focal point for so many people around the world?  One can find evil and misery anywhere, so what draws us all to this “Promised Land,” even those who have never been there or have decided to leave?  Why?  What is the meaning of being “chosen,” and how does it feel to be a non-Jew native of this place, the “unchosen”?  What does it mean to be stuck in the midst of religious wars in the beginning of the 21st century?

Looking back at the process we went through, I find it helpful to share excerpts from some of the many thoughtful and impactful statements made during our discussion:

“I feel such deep gratitude for the amazing space that this virtual conversation has opened.”

“I have asked myself if it’s mad or courageous to launch such a psycho-political e-list in the midst of another war in the Middle East, and concluded that it’s both.”

“I too am very grateful for this opportunity for a sincere and close discussion, sometimes pretty heated, which does not hide behind professional cliché. I loved the impolite and rough turns it took sometimes, and the ways we found to get back to a benign dialogue. (By the way, do “politics” and “polite” come from the same word stem?  Seems quite reasonable.)  It’s also fascinating for me to see the shift we took in the last posts toward deep reflection into the process unfolding between us. I guess it couldn’t have happened without us going through these misunderstandings, entanglements and resolutions. Again… it makes me understand the necessity to sustain and survive relational clashes in order to gain the capacity to reflect.”

“Like several of you, I have the feeling that something has changed. I’m sure it’s partly the cessation of ‘all-out destructiveness’ and acute anguish that cried out for ‘a voice like thunder and a tongue to drown the throat of war,’ as Blake wrote, long ago. The need for a safe place to discuss its personal impact on us (directly or through identification with our patients or ‘our people’) may therefore be diminishing. Thank goodness for that!”

“I have become mellow…fluffy…spongy….whatever… I began participating in the midst of the fighting, with a resolve to represent, in this ‘liberal, leftist, non-understanding, highly tilted, non-patient (I mean having no patience), on the verge of being anti-Semitic (by Semites too)’ forum, a ‘proud non-apologetic Israeli-Jewish’ stance…But now I got mellow!…I feel we went through something here.”

I apologize for quoting without naming the authors of these posts.  These are a few voices from our large group, very personal representatives of others we speak for and through.  We related to each other and to our context in real time.  I thank all of the subscribers for being there and IARPP for being such a vibrant and holding frame for our minds in times of terror.  Time will tell how we’ll move on. We have traveled a long way since we began.

“The past is never dead.  It isn’t even past.”  –William Faulkner [1]

Rina Lazar
Ramot Naftali 9
Tel Aviv 69278
Israel
rlazar@post.tau.ac.il

[1] This quotation is also a contribution of one of the participants